Lot’s Wife: the woman who turned

Genesis 19

Lot’s Wife ©Micah Hayns

Like many of the women of the Bible we don’t know the name of our next woman, only that she was Lot’s Wife (although in some Jewish traditions she’s named Ado or Edith). We know very little about her other than she had two daughters and that she lived in Sodom, a town with a long-lasting reputation for being rather seedy.  Although we know very little about her life she’s mainly remembered for the manner of her death: being turned into a pillar of salt as punishment for turning around to look back at her burning home.

It’s a curious story.

Lot was Abraham’s nephew and he settled the land called the Plain of Jordan (better known as Sodom), whilst Abraham settled in Caanan.

The enigmatic angelic visitors who had visited Abraham and Sarah then headed towards the city of Sodom. Lot, who was sitting at the City gate, greeted them and invited them to his home and his wife provided a feast for them. However, before they’d finished eating the ‘men of the city’ surrounded the house demanding the visitors be given over to them ‘so that we may know them’ (Genesis 19.5). Lot refused to allow the men into his home and instead offered them his own virgin daughters.

Much has been written of these passages in relation to sexuality, and they have been used as justification of God’s displeasure at same-sex relationships. This is simply wrong. This is not a passage about relationships, same-sex or otherwise: it is about violence. The men of Sodom want to rape Lot’s visitors, and so he protects them by offering his own daughters instead.

The angelic visitors strike the rampaging Sodomites with blindness so they can’t find the door and then they urge the family to flee before the city is destroyed. They were told:

Flee for your life; do not look back or stop anywhere in the Plain; flee to the hills, or else you will be consumed.

Genesis 19.17

As the family flee, the cities of Sodom and neighbouring Gomorrah are both destroyed in a shower of ‘sulphur and fire from the Lord out of heaven’.

But Lot’s wife, behind him, looked back, and she became a pillar of salt

Genesis 19:26

Why did she look back? And why salt? It’s all very strange.

I’ve often heard it said the reason she looked back was that she she lacked faith, but this seems overly harsh. Perhaps she was grieving a place which held all her childhood memories; or maybe she felt closer to the people in Sodom than to her husband, a man who would offer up his own daughters to be raped in order to protect some visitors; or perhaps she was simply terrified and frozen to the spot by the horror she was seeing.

The rock formation called ‘Lot’s Wife’ is found near the Dead Sea on Mount Sodom in Israel

It is interesting to note that the ‘Pillar of Salt’ is also an ancient legend told to explain some curious salt rock formations in this region.

Also, being turned into a pillar of salt is an idiom in Eastern tradition for dying of fright.

Whatever happened to Lot’s wife, she reminds us of thousands of women forced to flee their homes each day due to violence, war and natural disaster. She reminds us of all those who look back and remember all those they’ve left behind.

But perhaps she also reminds us that in this time of Lent we are also invited to turn – to turn towards God, who receives us with open arms of love.


The UN Refugee Agency estimates that there are 70.8 million forcibly displaced people in the world today and 37,000 people each day flee their homes due to conflict or persecution. (see here for figures at a glance: https://www.unhcr.org/ph/figures-at-a-glance)

Answer me, O Lord, for your steadfast love is good; 
according to your abundant mercy, turn to me.
Psalm 69.16

God of love, as we remember Lot’s wife who had to turn away from her home in fear, we remember all those today who are forced to leave their homes and face an uncertain future. Give them your strength and show them your love. We pray also that, in this time of lent, we might turn towards your love and know your peace in our lives. Amen

Author: clarehayns

College Chaplain and Welfare Coordinator of Christ Church, Oxford | Mum of three boys | wife of a juggler and magician | Council of Reference of ZANE - http://www.zane-zimbabweanationalemergency.com | enjoys board games, dog walking, films, eating out.

16 thoughts on “Lot’s Wife: the woman who turned”

  1. I just wanted to say I’m really enjoying these daily blog posts, so far. Looking forward to what is to come! Thank you!


    1. Absolutely agree, a real breath of fresh air for Lent and a chance to engage with some different scriptures, keep it up!


  2. Great stuff Clare, keep it up. Though I’m disappointed Micah hasn’t managed to draw a picture of a petrified woman whose turned into a pillar of salt. Now that would test his artistic skills.


  3. LOVED this Clare. Thinking of all those women fleeing their home land, desperate to go back but can’t – and so struggling to go on. Frozen in terror and fear. Put a completely different spin on a story I’ve always found both difficult to understand and more than a bit repellent. Thanks for these…


  4. Great stories and definitely food for thought – thanks so much, Clare. I’ve never quite understood that story either until now- can’t wait for more!


  5. I have been enjoying the posts very much too. It is really nice to do something a little different this Lent, focus on people who may have been overlooked in the past, and see things from a different angle. I have often pondered Lot’s wife, and wondered what message or lesson I could get from this passage. I decided that one lesson for me has been that it can be tempting to look back and dwell too much on the past things we have lost, and this can “freeze” us, turning us to stone and preventing us from moving onwards into the new things God has for us in the future because at this moment in time they do not seem to match our perception of those things we have lost. Also Lent is a time for letting go, and sometimes we simply have to let go of our security in those things that are familiar in order to move onwards.


  6. These are great food for thought Clare. So far, it looks like God is male. Looking forward to chapter 4.


  7. From what I understand, lots wife looked back at Sodom because her heart was still set on her material possesions. “Where you’re heart is, there is your kingdom.” God requires docility and singleness of heart in order to follow His Spirit especially in matters of moral, physical survival. Anyway, thats what I get from that reading.


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